Resource Thursday - March 3, 2011

Each Thursday the Hope Cottage blog shares resources for parents and adoption advocates.  If you have a suggestion for a resource, e-mail Chief Development Officer Leslie Clay at lclay@hopecottage.org. 

New Immunization Guidelines for Children     On  February 1, 2011 the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) released the recommended childhood and adolescent immunization schedules for 2011. These schedules are revised each year to reflect new and updated information for the use of vaccines licensed by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration.  Click here to read the rest of the article on ParentDish.

From the Sixty Second Parent:

     Encouraging Creativity in Your Child
     Baking with Your Child
     Preschooler obsessions - what's normal what's not
     Why Peek-a-Boo Matters
     Visual Development and Your Baby
          

Here are a few articles from Hope Baby Robert Tobin.  Enjoy!
     "Guess How Much I Love You"
                a story illustrating the special bond between a father and son.

     The Caldecott Medal Unmasked
               includes a list of previous Caldecott winners. 
     It takes a village to raise a child; The importance of parent involvement in the classroom.

Hope Cottage is the oldest nonprofit, non sectarian adoption agency in Dallas. Since 1918 Hope Cottage has been building and nurturing strong families through counseling, education and adoption services.

If you have questions about adoption, please call Hope Cottage at 214.526.8721.



If you are a woman facing an unwanted pregnancy and would like to talk to someone about adoption, please call Hope Cottage at 1.800.944.4464 or 214.404.4546.

Resource Thursday- February 17, 2011

Every Thursday, Hope Cottage shares resources for parents, adoptive or otherwise.  Enjoy and feel free to leave your comments and suggestions - we must just include them in a future post!

You made it through the first 8 – 10 months with your baby. Congratulations! You’re starting to feel a sense of growing confidence in this parenting thing – your baby has become more predictable, and she’s a lot of fun, too.  She isn’t tiny anymore – she can crawl, sit in her high chair, and explore around the house. But wait a second – she’s fussing and clinging a lot all of a sudden, plus she’s been waking more at night again. “She must be sick!” you think. But her doctor checks her out – and gives her a clean bill of health. No, it’s not her teeth or her ears. It’s her brain – growing in leaps and bounds.  Click here to read more about "Why Normal Babies Cling and Fuss" from Health Tap Blog.

"How Stress Affects Our Children".  Read what Dr. Michelle Borba has to say on the subject on her blog. 

Homework Hassles - How to Minimize Them from Parenting.com. 

The Pain of Playdate Parenting:  Disciplining your kids is challenging; disciplining your kids' friends is a headache waiting to happen.

Hope Cottage is the oldest nonprofit, non sectarian adoption agency in Dallas. Since 1918 Hope Cottage has been building and nurturing strong families through counseling, education and adoption services.


If you have questions about adoption, please call Hope Cottage at 214.526.8721.



If you are a woman facing an unwanted pregnancy and would like to talk to someone about adoption, please call Hope Cottage at 1.800.944.4464 or 214.404.4546.

Resource Thursday - February 10, 2011

Each Thursday, Hope Cottage - Dallas' oldest nonprofit, nonsectarian adoption agency, shares resources for parents and families - especially those families made through adoption. We hope you find these offerings beneficial. If you have a resource to share or suggest, e-mail it to Leslie Clay, Chief Development Officer at lclay@hopecottage.org.Give Your Toddler the Opportunity to Experience Competence





     Resarch has shown that toddlers tantrum less and cooperate more when they feel more powerful. There are three key ways you can help your toddler experience herself as a person with healthy power in the world:

      1.Listen to her.
      2.Let her make choices whenever possible.
      3.Give her the opportunity to experience competence.

     It may sound odd, but toddlers need daily experience with work to start thinking of themselves as competent people. Not burdensome work, but rather work in the spirit of Maria Montessori, or Tom Sawyer, who turned white-washing a fence into a reward.
     Start with ordinary household tasks, not because he can really help you at this point -- he may well make a mess. But consider the benefits:
     •Toddlers are fascinated by household tasks because they see you -- their heroine - doing them. They WANT to help.
     •Your budding scientist uses ordinary life to figure out how the world works.
     •You're doing the work anyway, so you can help them and bond over the task. They love being
      with you and this counts as quality time!
     •They're constructively occupied.
     •They're gaining skills for the future; it's educational.

What kinds of household tasks?
     •Making themselves a snack, such as peeling fruit or an egg, or slicing soft cheese and
      making sandwiches with crackers.
     •Helping wash pots and pans or other unbreakable dishes.
     •Pairing the socks as you fold clothes.
     •Picking out fruit at the grocery store.
     •Washing the table or floor.

The end result? Your toddler says "I did it!" and begins to think of herself -- and to become -- a more capable, powerful person. And you get a more delightful toddler.

Source:  Dr. Laura Markham     Aha! Parenting.com

Did you know The flu virus can live up to 8 hours on surfaces. Wash your hands with soap and warm water frequently or use alcohol-based hand sanitizer.


Hope Cottage is the oldest nonprofit, non sectarian adoption agency in Dallas. Since 1918 Hope Cottage has been building and nurturing strong families through counseling, education and adoption services.


If you have questions about adoption, please call Hope Cottage at 214.526.8721.



If you are a woman facing an unwanted pregnancy and would like to talk to someone about adoption, please call Hope Cottage at 1.800.944.4464 or 214.404.4546.